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Harley Quinn hyenaholic NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-12 Age: 27
 | Subject: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Sun Aug 09, 2009 7:56 pm | |
| Aren't you just so sick of people thinking that Rape equals love? Well the excuse for that is Stockholm Syndrome. Writers totally forget how rare Stockholm Syndrome really is, and that it takes certain circumstances, and isn't influenced by repeatedly raping somebody. It's something to do with the victim identifying with the captor as a protecting figure in a dangerous enviroment. A survival instinct, if you will.
It is, in short, a goddamn mental illness, because frequently despite the victim identifying with their captor as a protecting figure even when they may be put in danger by sympathising with them.
Then there's Lima Syndrome which is when the captors sympathise with their victims.
Can Stockholm Syndrome actually be done right? How badly can it be done wrong? How fucking sick are you of people claiming rape victims falling in love in a matter of twenty damn minutes? What is it with people wanting to call the enjoyment of being raped Stockholm Syndrome when that mental illness has in fact no relation whatsofuckingever to getting bum-fucked? |
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Cyberwulf NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-03 Age: 30 Location: TRILOBITE!
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Sun Aug 09, 2009 8:19 pm | |
| harley you're the only one who writes Stockholm Syndrome rape = love is a different thing entirely |
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rae Contributor


Join date: 2009-06-10 Location: computer chair
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 12:03 pm | |
| I've read a fic where the protagonist came dangerously close to developing Stockholm and I actually think that this particular author could have written it correctly if she'd chosen to go in that direction with it.
aethertube and I started a fic where it would feature prominently but someone commented on it and was very clearly shlicking to it. I... I must hang my head in shame; I couldn't continue because it creeped me out. |
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Dick Powers Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-07-16 Location: Chillin with my homie Issun on Oni Island
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:59 pm | |
| Stockholm Syndrome =/= falling in love with captors. |
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Salamas Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-06-11 Age: 22 Location: Dark Corner
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:09 pm | |
| | Gyro's Grillz wrote: | | Stockholm Syndrome =/= falling in love with captors. |
That's what I was thinking. It's more of sympathy and loyalty of the kidnappers, not necessarily love. You can feel something for a captor, it doesn't mean you have to love them.
As for your questions Harley, I'm sure it can be done right, and it doesn't need to come through rape, not every captor rapes their victim. Additionally, Stockholm Syndrome isn't a mental illness, but more sympathy and understanding. |
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Dick Powers Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-07-16 Location: Chillin with my homie Issun on Oni Island
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:31 pm | |
| | Salamas wrote: | | Additionally, Stockholm Syndrome isn't a mental illness, but more sympathy and understanding. |
Which comes from the captors treating their victims some degree of kindness such asking the victim if they are alright, feeding them, and making sure they do not get injured. |
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Salamas Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-06-11 Age: 22 Location: Dark Corner
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:56 pm | |
| | Gyro's Grillz wrote: | | Salamas wrote: | | Additionally, Stockholm Syndrome isn't a mental illness, but more sympathy and understanding. |
Which comes from the captors treating their victims some degree of kindness such asking the victim if they are alright, feeding them, and making sure they do not get injured. |
Exactly, I don't think raping the victim is going to make them fall for their captor, probably make the victim loathe them even more. Also, even if the captors treat their victim well, the feelings of sympathy are not going to be instant, it's going to take some time. |
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Lysander Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-06-10
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:17 pm | |
| My advice is for you to buy Transformers toys and set alone in your room, banging them together and pretending that they're raping each other.
Then, you wouldn't have to care about doing it right. |
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Narwhal Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-06-10
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:23 pm | |
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Harley Quinn hyenaholic NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-12 Age: 27
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:12 pm | |
| Everybody tries to do Rape Is Love at some point. Sometimes it's not so appallingly bad as other times, and sometimes it can even be quite good.People thinking Stockholm Syndrome comes from getting raped is one of the wonderful things that lead to bad fanfiction.
I think it's a mistake all beginning Rape Fetish lwriters make at some point. |
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Lurv VileCorp's Muscly Woman-slave


Join date: 2009-06-11 Age: 22
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:44 pm | |
| | Harley Quinn hyenaholic wrote: | | Everybody tries to do Rape Is Love at some point. |
Wait, really? |
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Harley Quinn hyenaholic NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-12 Age: 27
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:59 pm | |
| Well, all the people I know. |
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DeeDee Sporkbender


Join date: 2009-06-03
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:31 pm | |
| I've seen Stockholm syndrome written well. It's not a bad thing to write about. The problem is, it's so easy to screw up if you don't know what the hell you're doing, or if your only interest is in getting a character to have implausibly hot sex with the villain.
And yeah, rape, or bad treatment in general, is probably not going to make someone experience Stockholm syndrome. It might make them obey the captor out of fear, but sympathy doesn't seem like a very likely outcome.
And I am also a bit confused over these multiple Stockholm syndrome threads. |
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Keith Fraser Shitgobbling pissdrinker


Join date: 2009-06-11 Age: 29 Location: The Emerald Isle
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:45 pm | |
| | Harley wrote: | | Everybody tries to do Rape Is Love at some point. |
I beg to differ. |
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Harley Quinn hyenaholic NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-12 Age: 27
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Tue Aug 11, 2009 9:32 pm | |
| I've sometimes wondered, at what point does a victim stop wondering what the hell is going on with all that unwanted groping, and realise that they're going to get raped. |
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Dick Powers Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-07-16 Location: Chillin with my homie Issun on Oni Island
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rae Contributor


Join date: 2009-06-10 Location: computer chair
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:04 am | |
| | Harley Quinn hyenaholic wrote: | | I've sometimes wondered, at what point does a victim stop wondering what the hell is going on with all that unwanted groping, and realise that they're going to get raped. |
Have you considered reading the biographies of rape victims so perhaps you might have some inkling of what's going on, and why the above sentence makes me want to sent a :ninjagift: |
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Mae Bedlam Shitgobbling pissdrinker


Join date: 2009-06-10 Age: 24 Location: The Coney Island Disco Palace
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:10 am | |
| Even though Harley's schtick is kind of old hat by now, I still can't help but wonder if she was actually raised by robotic hyena-hedgehogs and has never really had any sort of interaction with another human being. |
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The Ansem Man Drive-by Camwhore


Join date: 2009-07-14
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:27 am | |
| Forgive me, WGW, for I hath sinned.
While there was absolutely no rape involved, I did induce Stockholm Syndrome romance between a naive girl and a noble demon supervillain. |
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Pierre Gringoire Sporkbender

Join date: 2009-07-24 Location: Home
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:09 am | |
| | The Ansem Man wrote: | Forgive me, WGW, for I hath sinned.
While there was absolutely no rape involved, I did induce Stockholm Syndrome romance between a naive girl and a noble demon supervillain. |
Take two Hail Marys' and call me in the morning. |
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T.S.Orr VileCorp's Muscly Woman-slave


Join date: 2009-06-15 Age: 23 Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:33 am | |
| | Harley Quinn hyenaholic wrote: | | I've sometimes wondered, at what point does a victim stop wondering what the hell is going on with all that unwanted groping, and realise that they're going to get raped. |
The fucking hell? Harley I shouldn't have to tell you this but I will. If there is unwanted groping, people aren't going to wonder what's going on. Most sane people would fight, at least the ones I know would. That said rape = love =/= stockholm syndrome. :chimp: |
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Dick Powers Armbiter of Good Fanfiction


Join date: 2009-07-16 Location: Chillin with my homie Issun on Oni Island
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:44 am | |
| | The Ansem Man wrote: | Forgive me, WGW, for I hath sinned.
While there was absolutely no rape involved, I did induce Stockholm Syndrome romance between a naive girl and a noble demon supervillain. |
I don't blame you, those sauve supervillians are pron to wrapping naive everygirls around their fingers. |
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Harley Quinn hyenaholic NO NOT THE BEEEEES


Join date: 2009-06-12 Age: 27
 | Subject: Re: Good Old Stockholm Syndrome: The Path To True Love Wed Aug 12, 2009 1:11 pm | |
| | The Ansem Man wrote: | Forgive me, WGW, for I hath sinned.
While there was absolutely no rape involved, I did induce Stockholm Syndrome romance between a naive girl and a noble demon supervillain. |
Like I said, everybody takes it unto themselves to 'sin' a little at times. |
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